The Idea of You
By Jennifer Green,
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Book-based romance has a few steamy scenes, language.

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What's the Story?
In THE IDEA OF YOU, 40-year-old mom/art gallery owner Solène (Anne Hathaway) accidentally meets 24-year-old band member Hayes Campbell (Nicholas Galitzine) behind the scenes at Coachella. The two feel an instant connection, and Hayes seeks her out later at her Los Angeles gallery. Sparks fly, and suddenly Solène, a bitter divorcée with a teenage daughter (Ella Rubin), finds herself flying off to New York and then Europe for an unexpected romance with this younger man. But will their growing connection be able to withstand the withering eyes of his bandmates, her family and friends, and judgmental society?
Is It Any Good?
An enjoyable romance that takes itself a tad too seriously in the second half, this film is driven by alluring turns from Hathaway and Galitzine. The premise of The Idea of You is centered on the idea that, at 40, Hathaway's Solène is considered too old for Galitzine's 24-year-old boy band member, Hayes. Society judges her, and she judges herself. But it's hard to think of the stunning Hathaway as "old," even when she's dodging awkward flirtation from divorced dads at her 40th birthday party in one of the film's funniest early scenes. Unfortunately, the film gives up on the humor and veers into melodrama as it works its way to a drawn-out ending. In this, and in the unhurried sex scenes focused on Solène's pleasure, the film makes its target audience clear.
The Idea of You has some insightful musings on the process of maturing in adulthood. Solène does eventually confirm her stage in life by choosing her daughter's happiness over her own. Hathaway also gives a moving monologue about the moment she realized her marriage was over. She's shown letting go of her anger and disappointment, and she's definitely the driver of this film. But Galitzine -- riding a wave, after Purple Hearts and Red, White & Royal Blue -- matches her. He transmits vulnerability as a self-doubting but talented artist, and his performances in the boy band concert sequences are right on the nose. In these and other scenes, the film plays with split screens, color filters, and slow motion, all of which -- combined with a varied soundtrack -- adds momentum to this entertaining, star-driven romance.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about their feelings about the relationship between Solène and Hayes in The Idea of You. Do you think the age difference is inappropriate? Do you think the characters make the right decisions? Why or why not?
What messages does this film contain about social media, and especially media attention, to the private lives of celebrities? How does this relate to your own life?
Does August Moon remind you of any real-life boy bands? Do you think the experiences Hayes describes might be based on real life?
Have you read the popular book this film is based on? What does the film do better, and vice versa? What's your favorite literary adaptation on film?
Movie Details
- On DVD or streaming: May 2, 2024
- Cast: Anne Hathaway , Nicholas Galitzine
- Director: Michael Showalter
- Inclusion Information: Female actors, Female writers
- Studio: Amazon Prime Video
- Genre: Romance
- Topics: Book Characters , Music and Sing-Along
- Run time: 115 minutes
- MPAA rating: R
- MPAA explanation: some language and sexual content
- Last updated: April 29, 2024
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